Wedding favors have been around for centuries. French and Italian aristocrats began the tradition by giving their guests a bonbenniere, a small porcelain box with sweets insides, at the end of a party.
Now, in 2010, favors are still a big part of weddings. Brides put hours of thought and effort to come up with the perfect favor; ranging from homemade preserves, to luggage tags, to Lee’s famous pralines. Along with the décor, the food and the time they spent with the bride and the groom; the favor should be one of those lasting memories that guest leave with.
In lieu of a tangible favor, several of our brides have opted to support a cause that is important to them–donating to a local charity or preserving a piece of land in honor of their guests. This new trend is a great way give back to your community.
Here in Athens, GA, there is a local charity called Athens PBJs, which provides meals along with friendship to Athens’ homeless. The group was founded by the brother of one of our grooms, so in order to show their support and let their guests know about this great cause, we packaged mini peanut butter and jelly sandwiches in white bags that were sealed with a sticker mentioning a donation made in their honor. They were a huge hit!
The table is topped with the PBJ favors and the description of the charity. Thanks to Jason Trasher for these photos.
One of our recent brides came up with an idea after having much difficulty coming up with the perfect favor. She and her fiancé spent a summer together in Argentina, and felt the need to help a cause in the country. The couple decided to protect a piece of the land in the Argentinian rainforest in honor of their guests. The land was donated in the La Esperanza area in Argentina, where the World Land Trust is currently working. At the wedding, there was a large sign staged at the entrance to the dining tent, mentioning the donation and showing the location of the land for guests to read as them made their way to dinner.
The newlyweds displayed this sign informing guests of the donation to the rainforest habitat.
As always, the possibilities are endless. Choose a favor that reflects you, your fiancé and your wedding, and you can’t go wrong!
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